Who are the hater ("hater")?

In the lyrics of rap artists very often you canto meet the word "hater". What are they so remarkable, if they are mentioned in almost every song of the rapper? Who are the hayters? Who can you call that, and who does not? Let's try to understand this very interesting issue.

If you translate from English, then heyter isa person who hates someone for some reason. The reason for hatred in this case is someone else's success, recognition, popularity and money. For many rappers, all this symbolizes success. That is, some singers have the recognition of listeners, and those who did not achieve what they aspired to perceive someone else's success as their own defeat. Here, in general, is the simplest explanation of who are the hayters.

What does a heather do?

Basically, such people are engaged in the fact thatexpresses his opinion about who is more successful than him. As a rule, he does not speak openly about his hatred, he does not have the courage to do this. It is registered on a thematic forum or in a chat room, under some terrible name (for example, "BLOOD FONTANOM") and begin to criticize everyone and everything. At the same time, his remarks are often groundless.

The reason for this behavior is juvenilemaximalism. After all, who are the hayters? These are the ones who say that this performer (track, style, musical direction, whatever) is a total sucker, but this is a truly worthwhile thing. And it makes no sense to argue with him, in this case, no arguments will help. For a heyter, only his opinion is correct and only his words are true. Belief in his own rightness and misunderstanding that there can be other opinions - these are the main components of the most ordinary heyter. Over time, many people stop saying something like "I'm a heather." It becomes not so important who is cool and who is not. But there are people who retain youthful maximalism at 30 years.

Some people have a uniquethe ability to contain so much anger, hatred and envy. They can be both serious rivals, and simply primitive personalities. In any case, you need to learn to recognize the hayters.

How to deal with such people?

In principle, it is clear who are hayters, but howbehave with such envious and hateful? The perfect disregard for their secret attacks will be complete disregard. Even if you are stifled by fury, be in touch with the heyter are courteous and calm. Do not go on personalities, communicate with him briefly and on business. After all, most often their behavior, they try to hide the uncertainty in their abilities and fear (to be misunderstood and unaccepted by the public). The worst kind of heyter is a person who does not show his true attitude. In communication with you they are extremely friendly and nice, and behind you the first will start you (your creativity, style, etc.) to discuss.

The hayters were and always will be. We must learn to distinguish between criticism and envy. Well-grounded comments make us develop and become better. And the envious persons who are discussing you behind your back should not pay attention. It does not matter whether you listen to rap, write it (or do something else) - learn to understand where the criticism is, and where - the heit.